A new you! Is this possible?

An encouraging quote beautifully hand written in calligraphy script, and then collaged onto watercolor painted papers, some with natural elements such as flower petals and leaves embedded within. These are gorgeous pieces which will make stunning wall art or heartfelt notecards! #watercolors, #collage, #multimedia, #quotes, #inspirations, #handmadepapers

An encouraging quote beautifully hand written in calligraphy script, and then collaged onto watercolor painted papers, some with natural elements such as flower petals and leaves embedded within.

It’s that time of the year when we start to make promises to ourselves (and possibly to others) to make changes in ourselves. Whether those changes are radical, as in “I promise to be different, starting the New Year! I’ll make you proud of me!” or small, as in “I promise to watch less TV and we’ll get out more together!” it’s still difficult to make those changes and new resolutions stick longer than a week or two.

So, how do we really make real plans we can stick to? This is especially true when there seems to be many things to work on!

We all wish to make our self, our families and friends happy and proud of us.

I’ve found personally that when I’m unhappy with myself/my life, that I need to step out of my depressed and negative mindset for a few moments, to be able to determine what I’m unhappy about (and saying “everything” won’t cut it!) to be able to figure out what my plan of action needs to be.

I’ve observed that in a multi-step plan, there are usually many smaller steps that I need to do in order to get to where I want to go, and that I need to be realistic in how long it will take me to get it done!

For example, when I gained some weight from menopause, and I felt terrible about how I looked, and not being able to fit into my clothes, even the larger and larger sizes I was buying, I needed to take an honest look at where I had ended up, and to realize it wouldn’t take just a couple of weeks!

I saw that I had become much more sedentary, sitting on the couch and ‘vegging-out’ a lot, when previously I had been an active person. I was eating a lot of frozen dinners for the convenience of not cooking when I came home from work. The problem with this was that even though they were labeled as lower calorie, they were still higher in sodium and had very little protein to keep the cost down, and this was a contributor to the weight gain.

These two issues were adding together to make me feel lethargic and have no impulse to get moving to lose the weight and get healthy again.

I needed to mindfully decide to make some changes! Waiting for it to happen just wasn’t cutting it!

“Life has no remote. You have to get up and change it yourself.” – Unknown. Don't get too comfortable on the bench... you'll need to get up! One of the quotes which is included in the book "On Becoming a Lemonade Maker" by Tamara Kulish. I just loved the shadows this gorgeous bench was casting, the lines of the wooden walkway and the contrast in colors of the bench and the wall. Rather than take a photo of the entire bench, I felt a tight-in shot played up all these elements in a much stronger way.“Life has no remote.
You have to get up and change it yourself.” – Unknown

“If you don’t like the road you’re walking, start paving another one.” - Unknown. One of the quotes which is included in the book "On Becoming a Lemonade Maker" by Tamara Kulish. These very unusual paving stones are in a very small section of sidewalk in Historic Bisbee, Arizona. I couldn't tell if they were made of glass or Amethyst, but they were spectacular... to me at least! Everyone else just ignored them and walked right on by!

“If you don’t like the road you’re walking,
start paving another one.” – Unknown

I started a walking program after work, because I knew if I waited to pull myself off the couch after supper, I’d never get going, because eating dinner caused me to sprout roots into the sofa and not leave the soft environment until bedtime!

My finances were tight, so joining a gym was out of the question. I went to a park, and started doing laps around it. At first I could only do a couple of laps before I was tired, but after a few times, I was able to add to my total. Some days I was able to do more and others less, but overall I was making progress, and I was doing my best to do it consistently.

I didn’t do big workouts after work, but rather on the weekend  when I had more time and energy. The weekday workouts were to keep me moving and to also get some fresh air.

Fresh air! This is so important! It clears out so many cobwebs from the brain, allows me to walk meditate, formulate my thoughts and plans… a necessary component to my well being I’ve found!

Once I got into the walking habit, it did become easier to keep it going. Of course there were times when I got off track, but I just needed to give myself a push to get it back on track.

Another area I tackled was my eating habits; I started cooking some simple but much more nutritious meals, and added more protein. I felt much more energized and able to keep going!

“No matter how slow you go, you are still lapping everybody on the couch.” – Unknown. One of the quotes which is included in the book "On Becoming a Lemonade Maker" by Tamara Kulish. This old rusting vintage sign is still eye-catching even though it's no longer in service!

This old rusting vintage sign is still eye-catching even though it’s no longer in service!

It has been more than a year and a half since I started making these changes in my life. Has it been easy or convenient? Um, no, especially when during that time I made a major move from the state of New Mexico to Missouri to help my daughter with the kids since the baby went through a second battle with cancer, and my marriage died during that time.

I’ve had to remember my promise to myself to take better care of myself. I had to give myself many pep talks, and squeeze the time it. The results have been very good – I’m back to wearing the regular clothes I wore before I gained the weight, (yes, I kept them!) and I feel better too. I may be older now, but I still want to feel better!

“The trouble is, you think you have time.” - Buddha. One of the quotes which is included in the book "On Becoming a Lemonade Maker" by Tamara Kulish. We sometimes think we have a whole lifetime ahead of us, and so delay starting to work on our soul's purpose in life. If we start early, we may have more time to expand upon what we originally dreamed of doing, and so become so much more than we thought possible!

“The trouble is, you think you have time.” – Buddha

In my book On Becoming a Lemonade Maker (an eBook on Amazon), I have divided the sections into smaller mini chapters, really trying to break down some large problem areas into smaller much more manageable and do-able tasks, all tried, tested and learned in my life, which I hope will be a great help to you on your path to making changes you wish to make!

“The expert in anything was once a beginner.” – Unknown We need to start at the beginning before we can become very good at something! One of the quotes which is included in the book "On Becoming a Lemonade Maker" by Tamara Kulish.“The expert in anything was once a beginner.” – Unknown

“You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.” – Zig Ziglar. One of the quotes which is included in the book "On Becoming a Lemonade Maker" by Tamara Kulish.

“You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.” – Zig Ziglar

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One thought on “A new you! Is this possible?

  1. Thank you very much for following the blog, I really look forward to reading your posts and happy new year 2014. Gede Prama 🙂

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